stop gossip and spread the love

"If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that 'every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses'.If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector." (Matthew 18: 15-17)

Are you feel that God are directly speak into your current situation?
as a little girl of Daddy God, i always pray that i can grow more and shape my attitude
until i can really glorify His name in my life

now i am gonna to share about how God really do it..
last Thrusday May Shen share about love others in cell group by a discussion
is all about when u have a conflict/ argument/ flight with someone
what will you do after that?

I think most of us will gossip with friends to complain?
and in our little heart, we will said" aiyo, i din gossip kay, i just wan confess my feeling"
but actually, when u talk to third party without the present of the friend you argue with is already a gossip
So, stop finding excuse for this action. 

instead of gossip, we should go in front of the person and talk with them

it is hard to do so, but try to imagine yourself
will you feel good if someone talk about you behind you and you are know it from others?
we will feel annoying right? so ourselves should be the first for avoiding to gossip!!

i wont go further detail about it
because i wanna share my experience here right now XD
the day before cell group, i actually have a conflict with someone
and i get advice from Liang and during Thursday
i was like " waloee, so matched wan!!"

i feel so thankful for my daddy God to educate me through this two excellent leaders

but the story wasn' t end there
i had some hard feeling about some issue on my life
the next day after cell group
and was keep remind myself " apply what you learn yesterday!"
although the problems haven't settle yet
but at least i will  loves others as Jesus love me

we are sinful, but He still died for us just because of He loves all of us
I'm His daughter, of course i have to be like that as well
Is another learning test for me

"There is no such thing as a problem without a Divine gift hidden within it. 
You have these problems because you need the gifts they carry within."

i just discovered that our pretty Jun also share about the discussion, if you are interest, please
kindly go to juneinjuly, i am sure that you will know more detail for it